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October 26, 2010 Posted by MarlesaW in Be Inspired, Community, Features

BE [Happy]: What Have You Done for YOU Lately???

The good life, as I conceive it, is a happy life. I do not mean that if you are good you will be happy; I mean that if you are happy you will be good. ~Bertrand Russell

What’s up my B[+] Family??? I have a question for you: What have you done for YOU lately? Everyday we go through the same routines. Wake up, go to work/school, pick up the kids (if you have any), come home, cook/clean/work on a project, go to bed and repeat. Everyday (minus weekends for some of us) we treat each day like the last one: minus special circumstances and appointments, we assume that today will be just like yesterday…nothing special…nothing different. Sometimes we get so complacent with doing the “same old thing” that we forget that each day is a present and we must cherish it as such. I already know what you’re thinking, “It’s hard to cherish anything with these bills/grades/kids/stress always in my face!”, but you’re wrong. To cherish something or someone you must simply appreciate it and acknowledge it’s value.

I’ve always tried to cherish the people that I love and respect the most by doing small but meaningful things for them. Whether it’s a smiley face text the day of a big test or bringing their favorite food to work with me. It made me feel good to know that I could make someone else feel special. Yep, I felt so happy to make others happy but after all that, I would always feel like I had forgotten something or someone. It took me a minute to realize that what/whom I forgotten was MYSELF.

It’s so easy to go about your daily routine and constantly give to everything and everyone around you, and forget about yourself, but honestly, that’s not working for me anymore. Recently, I discovered that the only way I can really be a great service to others is to be a great service to myself. So everyday, I do something just for me. I might get dressed up for no reason or listen to my favorite station on Pandora or just lay in the bed an extra ten minutes. I can and will do whatever little thing I deem necessary to make myself happy. This is a not selfish or egotistical thing, it’s just something I feel that I must do for me.

B [+] fam, it is perfectly okay to love, respect, and cherish yourself. YOU deserve a little slice of happiness so stop neglecting yourself and take it! I LOVE BEING HAPPY and you should too. So often we assume that in order to be happy we must acquire something that we don’t currently have, but what we fail to realize is that everything we need has already been placed within us. Happiness is a frame of mind; YOU control your own happiness, others can merely try to contribute. So while I still want you to help others, serve the community, and give of yourself unconditional, I also want you to make sure you’re helping, serving, and giving TO yourself as well. If you make a mistake today, it’s okay don’t let mistakes, regrets, and bad days make you feel inadequate or make you want to punish yourself. Please remember that each and every day is just another chance to get things right. So smile! Enjoy that piece of cake, take the long way home so you can play your favorite song on repeat, curl up with a good book, or take that personal time you’ve accumulated: You deserve it!

My Personal Happy Day Soundtrack (Enjoy):

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Tags: Happiness, motivation, Positive, Self-Help

October 25, 2010 Posted by JosephB in Uncategorized

Superbowl Jr.???

It happens around the same time every year: houses are divided, friendships are tested, and family’s are broken, but only for one night—Iron Bowl. Every year Alabama and Auburn fans come together to support their team in what is shaping up to be the BIGGEST college football game of the year. With ticket prices ranging from $250 – $1,892, it has become obvious that the Iron Bowl is going to be THE game to watch this year. On Friday, November 26, 2010 in Bryant Denny Stadium in Tuscaloosa, AL a lot of questions will be answered: Who will win the Heisman? Who’s going to win the SEC Championship? Who’s going to represent the SEC in the National Championship? If both teams keep their current pace, EVERYTHING will be on the line. Even though Alabama suffered a lost earlier in the season, they are still a major threat to Cam Newton and the Auburn Tigers. The Tigers are currently ranked number one in the BCS polls and are in full control of their own destiny, but with the past three number one teams falling in the ranks, the Tigers can’t afford to get too comfortable with their new title.

After such a dominating season last year, powerhouse Alabama fell victim to complacency and suffered an ego-busing loss to South Carolina. After being tormented by their first lost in almost two years, the Tide’s focus has been re-centered. The defending national champs can no longer rely on their “flawless” record and must now go back to the basics and focus on playing with depth and consistency. In last week’s game against Tennessee, the Tide certainly focused its attention on handling the Vols with a 41-10 victory. If Alabama can keep their current pace and make it to Iron Bowl with a 10-1 record, there will be a lot on the line for the Crimson Tide.

Recently ranked number one Auburn is currently in control of their own destiny. This season, the Tigers have shown an offensive explosion on the field. First year sensation Cam Newton, is currently leading the Heisman race and is also receiving media attention for being the number one rusher in the country. Other sports analysts have even gone so far as to compare Newton to the legendary Bo Jackson but I beg to differ. Although Newton is very talented, he is also a 21-year old junior whose counterparts are 18 and 19 years old. This raises the argument that even though Newton is basically carrying the Tigers on his back, if he were to be placed on a pro team with rookies the same age as him, would he still be so dominant on the field?

Overall, this year’s Iron bowl will be a strong indicator of who will not only win that game, but also the SEC Championship, the Heisman Trophy, and the National Championship. When the stands fill with Blue & Orange and Crimson & White on that fateful Friday afternoon, the whole world will get to watch the best rivalry in college football decide the future of the BCS.

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Tags: Auburn University, BCS, College Football, Iron Bowl, SEC, University of Alabama

October 23, 2010 Posted by MarlesaW in Be Involved, Community

Be [Seen]: GΓΣΣΚS GIVING BACK

Shh…isn’t Tiffany a _____? What about Mike, I heard he wanted to be in ______? My professor’s a ________, he/she crossed in the 90′s.

It may be your pastor, your co-worker, your parents or even yourself, but nine times out of ten you have been influence/affected by a member of a Greek-letter organization. Stomp The Yard I & II, GΓΣΣΚ, Drumline, and the infamous Spike Lee film, School Daze are all films and TV shows that have placed Greek life directly in our living rooms. Although the step shows, prestige, and mind games emphasized in the movies are all a part of being Greek; Greek-letter organizations are also provide a service to the community. With the majority of their intake processes shrouded in secrecy, what’s not a secret is that most Greeks like to give back to their surrounding communities. Every Greek-letter organization emphasizes some form of philanthropy that must be shown by its active members and often require a certain amount of community service hours from potential members. Philanthropy can range from something as simple as a national fund raising effort to a local volunteering activity. Regardless of how the service is performed, members of these organizations must have some sort of direct involvement in the community.

It’s that direct community involvement that B.Positive wants to highlight. We want to know which local Greek organizations are the best at providing for our community. If you or someone you know is an active member of a Greek-letter organization we want to acknowledge you and your organization! As the community editor of B.Positive, I want to know what positive things Greeks are doing in our community and I want to highlight those positive things! E-mail me at MarlesaW@bpositivemag.com and let me know what your organization is doing to improve our community. E-mail me by Friday, November 12, I will pick four outstanding organizations, two fraternities and two sororities, to feature on bpositivemag.com. I want your pictures, videos, and a small description of why your organization is better than the rest when it comes to serving the community. Let’s get involved people!!! Put a positive shine on your organization and e-mail me today!!!

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October 22, 2010 Posted by TiffenyC in After Hour Events, Features, Night Life

Magic City Classic Weekend Roundup

With about one week left to what is expected to be one of the biggest weekend turnouts ever, have you decided what to do for Magic City Classic 2010?

The Magic City Classic is an annual football game featuring two rival schools, Alabama A&M University and Alabama State University. The game usually takes place at Legion Field in Birmingham, Al on the last Saturday in the month of October. There are many events surrounding The Magic City Classic; there is the annual parade [usually with a celebrity grand marshal] followed by various tailgating events, the football game and after hour entertainment. The highlight during the Magic City Classic is usually not the game itself, but whose band took the crown during the half-time show.

In case you are wondering what to expect, crowd goers can expect to walk down the streets of Legion Field hearing various genres of music, seeing a variety of vendors, and gawking over all the latest trends. The Magic City Classic is sure to have an event for everyone of all ages and social statuses.

Below are a few fliers covering the after hours entertainment. Check them out so you can be sure to check out all the hottest spots! For a more detailed list of The Magic City Classic events please click here.